I joined the Chnlove Asia dating site three years ago. Like many people on Chnlove, I was concerned about the language difference at first. Now that I have found the love of my life, I believe true love transcends all language barriers. If you find your true love, you will go to all lengths to overcome any obstacle.
Chnlove Asia dating tips: try to learn each other’s language
Nowadays, English is taught in the schools in China. So most younger ladies, especially those from bigger cities, can speak a certain level of English. Besides, when you communicate with your lady through Chnlove, there are translators to help translate the letters for you. So there should be no problem at the early stage of the relationship. However, If your lady is going to live in the Western world with you, then it is very important for her to learn English. Naturally, her English will improve as she communicates with you. She will start picking up words more and more each day as you talk to her. In fact, I find the English language is one of the easiest languages to pick up, and Chinese women are generally very clever. So there is really no need to worry!
Nevertheless, the best is for both of you to learn each others’ language to prove your sincerity. Sometimes if one partner starts or shows that they have the desire to communicate, it gets the ball rolling fast because there’s trust. Your lady would be very impressed if you do something like learning another language for her, and it would take your relationship to a new level, because it shows how serious you are about her. On the other hand, if she knows what you’re willing to do for her, she will be more motivated to learn English.
Create your own language of love
In reality, language sometimes muddles up deep ideas that come across best with simple words, facial expressions, and gestures. You would be amazed how many subtle messages can be conveyed via body langauge and gesturing. The proof of affection should not be what you tell her – you need to use deeper actions. Language is for information, but the most important thing in a relationship is emotion. My lady and I have our own langauge of love that only we can truly understand. Although there may be a lot missing in the talks we have, with our love for each other we are overcomming this day by day. It takes time and patience on both parts. After all, if the marriage is good, you have a life time to overcome all the langauge things in your life. Just enjoy loving each other, and the rest will find its way to you two.