I have been using the Chnlove Asia dating site for a couple of years, as I have always liked Asian, especially Chinese women. In fact, online dating with a Chinese woman turned out to be much easier than I thought. Of course, you need to pay attention to things like cultural differences. Here are some tips I would like to share with guys that intend to find a Chinese wife. Hopefully, these will help you win your Chinese lady’s heart.
Chnlove Asia dating tips: about the age gap
First of all, I would like to dispel this notion of the “age-gap”. It is virtually and decidedly Westernised. In reality, it doesn’t really exist in most cultures around the world, most anthropologist would tell you that. That said, it doesn’t mean there are no girls or women in China with “Western” ideas.Generally speaking, Chinese ladies don’t like to marry men much older than themselves, but thanks to China’s vast population, it’s not too difficult to find plenty of ladies who prefer to date much older men. As a matter of fact, many Western men are interested in dating Asian women simply because it’s not too hard to find a girl who will marry a man 20 or even 30 years older than she is. In my experience of dating Chinese women, I’d say that the youngest lady you could get away with dating is half your age plus seven years. This is an old piece of wisdom, and it’s worked very well for me.
Getting parents’ approval in a relationship is a very significant aspect of Chinese culture. Chinese people place great emphasis on parental influence, much more than Western cultures do. It would almost be unheard for a proferssional lady in your girlfriend’s position to be observant or particularly galvanised by her parents decisions in American circles. Chinese women, on the other hand, have much more respect for family and adherence and loyalty to structured community, instead of striving for individuality. So basically, you should try to ingratiate yourself to the parents, and I can confidently say you won’t regret it. Go to them humbly, and pour your heart out to them, showing them you sincerely do love their daughter. All I believe they are doing, is looking for security and good future for their kid, as any good parent should. You should uderstand and go with that, if you really love the girl. Try and earn their trust.
Loyalty of Chinese women
From what I’ve heard and seen, if a Chinese woman loves you, they “generally” stick by you. Once you have convinced your Chinese lady that you are genuine and she trusts you, you will probably find that she in turn will be fiercely loyal to you. A Chinese woman seriously looking for a relationship will lose interest in looking for others once she has found HER man. So if you have lucked into a lovely Chinese lady through Chnlove, convince her you are the one for her. Just show her how serious you are and put her heart at ease. Hopefully, time will heal any indecision or fears on her part.