He is an American gentleman at the age of 56 and she is a Chinese lady at the age of 52. They got to know each other through a friend and began to communicate only online without any face-to-face meeting until two weeks before their transnational marriage, giving a happy ending to the two-year internet dating. The happy couples are Richard and Zhang, the American husband and his Chinese wife.
The beginning of the wonderful Internet dating online.
Zhang has got divorced with her former Chinese husband owing to bad relationship and has lived only with her 27-year-old son. She has never or ever dreamed of getting married again, let alone marrying to a foreign husband. It was about two years ago that a friend of her who was located in the U.S. for years introduced a California guy to Zhang. And the guy is called Richard. Attracted by her beauty when first chatting with the China woman online, Richard began the two-year-long cross-border online dating. He sent her at least one email every day and gradually found that this Chinese lady was also a kind-hearted person apart from the good appearance. And Richard thought she should be the one he would like to spend the life with. So that was the good beginning of the transnational marriage.
Step-son being a translator for the cross-border dating.
In the wedding party, Mr. Chan, son of Zhang, must be the happiest person besides his dear mother and step father, who said that he was really happy to have Richard join in the family and believed Richard would bring his mother a joyful and comfortable future. In fact, Mr. Chan is the witness of this transnational love. Zhang is not good at English while Richard knows little about Chinese. Language barrier is always the big problem on cross-cultural dating. Fortunately, Mr. Chan is good at English and translated all the emails or messages for this new couples in the past two years. ” What they talked is mostly about problems they have met in life, the solutions on how they solved difficulty and thinking of the future. ” Mr. Chan remembered those past dating moments with a smile on his face,” Sometimes there were sweetie words between lovers and we all feel comfortable to it without any embarrassment. ” On the other side, Zhang, who used to be one of Chinese singles and successfully wins a cross-border marriage, is trying her best to learn English in order to have a better communication with her foreign husband without the help of her son.
What a romantic but real love story! We can see that love is regardless of age, language, border or nationality. Dating Chinese girls should not be that difficult as you think. Love can be everywhere in the world, what you need to do is to discover and win love with your heart.